one DAPSILOG please!!!

they say that people at my age must be settled in life, because society tells us that a complete person is someone who is married and had kids at a certain age. for those who are at late 20s and still single, will most likely feel the annoying mockery of this so called "family orientation" --- where mothers begin to worry if their daughters would ever gonna give them grandchildren, where people will blame your career for being comfortable on it and forgetting the idea of marriage and of course your friends and relatives would push u with someone u barely know so u can get to "the last trip"

this is the painful reality, no matter what generation you belong, im sure uve heard any of these. life becomes harder when we put things in one box, one direction of life, as if marriage is pre-conditioned...as if marriage is a moral obligation of all human beings...as if you are "cursed" if you wont get married. sad to say, there are a lot of people who choose to go to this thought without realizing the stress they are causing to other people. for the most part, they are the ones who are closest to you.

u ask me why until now i have not said my vows to anyone..it is because id like to marry for the right reasons. unlike the mediocres, i dont consider age, (i dont like numbers) i dont believe in "culture tagging" or "society hagging" --- if the right time comes that ill decide to settle down, it is because i found the right person that i promise to love and stay with for the rest of my life.

maybe ure in this kind of situation, but believe me, it wouldnt hurt u, if u set aside other people's notion about marriage, cuz u might end up being unhappy and feel sorry about the idea of it. dont be a slave of this customary wedding thoughts, because it is u that will give a complete definition of marriage.